People!!

Hey Jo, you know when you are going through this stuff, you will sort out the wheat from the chaff...................I had (still have) some incredible reactions - dont worry, people are really weird - I have issues with people who 'shave for cancer', they can be full of 'good intentions' but they can be the very same people that run a mile when they meet someone who 'actually' has cancer! and that's know when you realise they are just 'show ponies'  when it comes to the crunch - I have seen it happen - you will find your 'true' friends and some people who you thought close to you - back off as if you were a walking infection - and when you get to the point where the hair is growing back - every one treats you as if you are suddenly 'well again' and treat you like dirt - even family.  I wore a beanie, and turbin, and later a scarf......after a while I just didn't give a 'toss' what people thought - not my problem! and you should think that too............what ever their reactions, not your problem! - all you have to do is concentrate on 'getting well' - that is all that matters, bugger people! what the hell do they know any way! Zero, zip and zilch! You just get better - honestly, a bald head is just collateral damage sweetheart! Just get well and bugger people and don't worry or even think about them - you! are the one that counts! big hugs x x x x x x x x Josie