Hi Jenpen,
I had a mastectomy after an invasive ER/PR+, HER- diagnosis and I’m currently on a 3 x FEC plus 3 x Taxotere regime. (I had 2 cancerous nodes; your plan may differ).
I was terrified of chemo and cried through the first meeting with my oncologist as we went through the horrid and lengthy list of possible side effects. I thought I’d write to you because I’ve since learned not to automatically assume the worst but to instead take things as they come.
I’ve now completed 3 FEC and one Taxotere. My side effects have been surprisingly mild and after the first 4 or five days, I feel pretty normal. I am working full-time (office work) other than 4 work days off for each cycle plus a weekend (six days recuperation in total). So my advice would be to prepare for a tough time just in case, but try not to fixate about things before they happen, because they might not happen. If you search this site for Shazinoz, you’ll find a long series of posts about what other members found helpful during chemo. I found it extremely useful.
One thing that helped me a little was to visit the day chemo facility for a quick look-see a few days before my first treatment. I was still very anxious at the first treatment but at least I was already familiar with the lay-out, facilities and briefly met the head nurse. Best you phone them in advance to arrange this if you want to do it.
Another suggestion prior to starting chemo is to ask the oncologist where he/she conducts their check-up and review for each cycle. I mention this because there is an oncologist (not mine thankfully!!) treating breast and ovarian cancer patients at the hospital I attend who conducts reviews chair-side in the chemo facility while his patients are on the drip. Those of us in the surrounding chairs can hear the entire discussion. His patients don’t seem to mind but I find it an appalling breach of patient privacy. I’m sure it’s not common practice and I’d never work with oncologist who did this.
You sound positive. The next few months will pass very quickly and I’ll keep an eye out to see how you’re travelling.
Peta xx