jo1234
15 years agoMember
operation done
Waiting, waiting hmmmm, it's all we seem to do these days. Had my operation to remove IDC and nodes on Tuesday. Quite tender still but very manageable. Very tender at base of neck/throat at the t...
Hello Jo,
sorry you are going through this but you must let people know how you feel and explain to them why they need to help you now and in the harder times and would probably be more than willing if they understand your difficulties and fears,try them as they may surprise you, have you given them any of the information booklets or a number to call?
I found when my family and friends had the info on hand it was much easier and I didnt have to explain it 100 times over, the great excuse of cancer/chemo brain took care of that as well, lol
You deserve respect as a cancer patient and your surgeon and G.P were out of line, this stuff is hard, horrid and worthy of howling whenever the damn hell you want so let it rip whenever you want baby, we are usually here at the wee hours when there is no one else around and we understand what you are talking about
wishing you the best
Cheryl D