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12 years ago

One Year Later

A year has passed since my operations, my chemotherapy and radiation, and my hair is growing back.  I am a lucky person, although a Triple Negative BC member, who still gets her portal flushed every 6 weeks, I have survived so far.  I had a year off work, and I had the time to think, a time to assess, and bond with family, make beautiful new friends, and time to appreciate a brand new place I call home.  I was lucky because I found out I had BC after just moving to Launceston, and found that they had just built a brand new Cancer Council  full of great staff and volunteers, and all of my surgeons and Doctors did the right thing, and "fixed me".  I was lucky because it brought my husband closer to me, and for the first time he had some counselling.  I was lucky because my brother paid for me to fly to S.A. to see my family and we rebonded after not having much to do with each other for years.

 I was lucky because I got to go on lots of walks, and see lots of birds and wild life.

The year I had BC I discovered after only 5 months at working for the  Pharmacy that my employer and the staff would be supportive and wait for me to come back.  I also am lucky because I am settling back into my 20 hours of work per week.

My parents flew here and  nursed me for 2 months, whilst my husband continued to earn the money.  

I was lucky, because we just had enough money to get through.

 The support from my Breast Care Nurse, Susan Schwabe was remarkable, and the compassion from Di Green my Chemo nurse -just wonderful.

The staff from Launceston General Hospital in the Radiation Ward hillarious, friendly and kind.

 I met the fabulous Burnie Bus crew who made Radiation fun.  I was lucky to have had a free day at a Beauty Spa, and also loved the Look Good Feel Good Day............etc

I hope Im that lucky from now on.......

This Christmas, I am Cancer Free

Merry Christmas

28 Replies

  • I just want to wish you the happiest of Christmas's.Your blog was the one that helped me so much when I first joined this network.May you continue to be lucky:) Love from Robyn xoxo

  • I just want to wish you the happiest of Christmas's.Your blog was the one that helped me so much when I first joined this network.May you continue to be lucky:) Love from Robyn xoxo

  • Happy Christmas Bel, and I hope you have a lucky 2014 and beyond! I was only just thinking that I have had it all wrong. I have been thinking and saying what an awful year 2013 has been but it has actually been a good year, it was 2012 that was full of crap. I believe the stress and not looking after myself in 2012 resulted in my BC. This time last year I felt run down, unfit and I had cancer but just didn't know it! This year I have discovered and treated the cancer, met some wonderful people along the way and grown closer to family and friends. I am fitter and healthier than I was this time last year and I have learnt a lot about myself and have become a more appreciative person. Looking forward to Cristmas and life beyond BC. Wishing everyone a lot of good luck for 2014. Deanne xxxxoooo
  • Great post Bel. Glad to read that you are doing so well and so many positive things have come out of a difficult year. Best wishes for Christamas etc. Janet.

  • What a year hey, all those ups and downs, those moments of laughter and tears and what the hell is happening to me are all gone thank goodness.

    I am so pleased that work is happening and going well for you. This is my 1st week of full time and I can assure you its a challenge. I did the slow return (well over a 6 week period) and this week I had a huge business trip so am exhausted.

    But its great to have our lives back, to reclaim what was taken from us and to embrace the wonderful new friends we made over the last 12 months.

    I wish you guys an extremely happy christmas may it be so much better than last years and that 2014 just keeps on improving the quality of your life.

    Love and kisses

    Donna

  • What a year! You have come through it all with an attitude of gratitude.Out of a horrible breast cancer journey you have managed to find the good things in your life as a result.I hope you have a lovely Christmas and continue to stay cancer free. love,Tonya xx

  • Hi Bel,  Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring story.  I love that you have discovered so many people and things in your life to be grateful for.  Congratulations for being Cancer Free and a big hug from me to you for a wonderful and happy Christmas.

    Joy xx

  • Hi Bel, I'm sure you will have a great xmas this year, and it's good to see that you are obviously looking at all the bright things in your life. I am constantly on the lookout for silver linings when things seem dark, and you have found lot of them. Well done to you, best wishes for the future, take care,

    Hazel xx 

  • Hi Bel, I'm sure you will have a great xmas this year, and it's good to see that you are obviously looking at all the bright things in your life. I am constantly on the lookout for silver linings when things seem dark, and you have found lot of them. Well done to you, best wishes for the future, take care,

    Hazel xx