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eewart
7 years agoMember
New diagnosis
i am 79 years of age and have just had a shock diagnosis and mastectomy. One of the lymph nodes showed micrometastasis fully enclosed. I am very afraid if I have to have chemo at my age. I am heal...
Flaneuse
7 years agoMember
@Lynetteewart I dreaded chemo. I'd not shed any tears in the 2.5 months between diagnosis and start of chemo, but on the morning of my first chemo I sobbed for 15 mins. I was so apprehensive. And I had a few tears during the first administration, with my daughter holding my hand. And I'm usually a tough old chook. Diagnosed at 74, now 76. But I got through it. I rocked the "Simone de Beauvoir" look with my turbans. My oncologist proposed stopping chemo after 20 weeks of the planned 24, because I had severe peripheral neuropathy and she said it could become permanent if I continued. I agreed. The PN gradually faded and is now gone. I also had 25 days of radiation. As others have said, everyone's treatment is different and we have a say in it. We need to ask the questions we need answers and be comfortable with plans. I needed to self-advocate quite a lot to get what I wanted, at times. I chose to stop taking the hormone tablets. I recently had revision surgery and am now feeling comfortable. For the first time 21 months, I'm now feeling very well and positive.
All the best for what lies ahead.
All the best for what lies ahead.