Hi Cindy, I am so sorry to rear of your news, I was diagnosed on March 10 this year. The pathology came back HER2+++ and ER +++ I was in so much shock I dont know how I managed to breath . The waiting for everything to start was the hardest time for me.... too much time to think! my breast care nurse told me to treat myself and do some nice things with my husband and family. The early days are truly the hardest, but remember you are never on your own. This is a great way to be connected . There is always someone else who cant sleep !!! Let us know how you are going Regards Hilary