Sorry to hear about your diagnosis, there are never enough words when you first get the news, its just unbelievable and shocking.
I was diagnosed in September, had a L masectomy and axillary clearance and will embark on my second round of chemo in a week's time. I'm also HER2+. I'm 36, married with a 3 y/o son.
BUT, if you're looking for help with a fighting spirit, this is the best place for it. This forum is a wonderful source of information, and its members, absolutely the most wonderful, inspiring, couragous and supportive friends to have. You might also find some support groups in your area, so check them out.
Truely wish you all the best Cindy, and look forward to chatting,
Maxene xx