Hi Lisha,
Welcome to the site. I'm four weeks in from having had a unilateral mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. One of the lovely ladies here advised me to get a U pillow for when I got home to assist me getting both in and out of my bed. I purchased one from K-Mart for $12-00 and it has been a most wonderful aide. It also assists in making bed incredibly comfortable and finding just the right spot to reduce pressure after surgery. I like it so much it's staying ;-) . My niece bought me a colouring in book and I had purchased both pencils and textas to help while away the time - nothing like a bit of mindless colouring to ease stress and take the focus off absolutely everything.Oh and a music player with your headphones to listen to your favorite music. If it starts to all get a bit much, just breathe deeply and slowly, you'll get there and you can always come on here to de-stress. All the best, Xx Cath