Oh you poor thing. I remember this awful time well. You have come to the right place though. I have found that, since joining in May, all the Pink Ladies here have been wonderfully supportive and many times kept me sane.
Waiting is such hell and your love for each other is all important right now. Adean is right, until the results are in, you just need to be there for each other and yes, the CD for partners helped my husband very much. I think it's natural for you and your husband to cry especially at this stage. I cried after the biopsy was done, I think I kinda new even then.
I really don't want to welcome you as I'm keeping everything crossed that you don't have to begin this journey so I am sending you as much positive thoughts as I can. Good luck my dear and keep us posted.
Love Janey xxx