Hi Phillipa
So sorry to hear your news. The ladies on here are wonderful, we have all been there and done that too. Hope your trip to Sydney goes well. It is a shame you have to travel for your scan. It is so much easier having not to travel.
Another word of wisdom is see if you have McGrath foundation breast care nurse in your area. They are like a "case worker" and can help you out with all sorts of things. Mine was great for deciphering all the information. (trust me, there are times when it feels like information overload.)
xo Christie