I have had triple negative breast cancer and a recurrance so yes I guess I had it twice! In my opinion we are all united in this battle that we have been thrown into without us asking for it.
When I was told about my diagnosis my Dr didnt make to big a deal about the triple negative thing. He just stated what I had and how we were going to treat it. At the time I didn't quite get how aggressive my cancer was. I guess i am lucky (if you call getting BC twice lucky) that both times I found my lumps early. I am also lucky my Dr didn't make too big a deal ablut the type of diagnosis I had. He just told me the facts and we got on with things.
I have made some lovely "cancer buddies" as my friend likes to call them along the way. We all had different diagnosis's but that has never been an issue with any of us. Recently I sadly lost two of those beautiful ladies to this awful disease. One had triple negative and the other didn't. My only thoughts are how sad it was to lose them both not which cancer had caused their illness.
The lady you are talking about is probably one of those annoying people in life who makes everything about themself. If you had met her pre cancer for both of you, she would probably have annoyed you then too!!!
I wish you every happiness. You are looking fantastic and good on you for doing the walk too :)
Paula xx