YLY
9 years agoMember
My story
You think it will never happen to you, until it does.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer on 20 July 2016.
I'm 35 and married for less than 2 years. My husband and I had only recently started try...
All the feelings you describe are completely normal and you have every right to feel them. I felt and feel exactly the same. I am 44 and was diagnosed last year on the 1st Of October with her2 metastatic breast cancer that has spread to my liver and bones, this was my initial diagnosis! And just before treatment the cancer decided to fracture my spine.
All I can say to you is you will have your good and bad days. But as time goes on you will find it that little bit easier to not accept ( I will never accept it ) but you will find it easier to deal with. I find that talking to other people with cancer helps because they understand your feelings. Also I find that continuing to focus on your health will make you feel like you have some sort of control. I see a phycologist as well which I find helpful.... I wish you all the best in health big hugs! xox