So sorry you have joined the club that nobody wants to be in - however you have come to the right place for all the love and support and information you will need. You are already past the biggest hurdle - surgery - and heading over the second with chemo. Just take it all one day at a time, from chemo to chemo, until it's done, which will come faster than you think. (Rads is a breeze after chemo so no need to even think about it at this stage.) You don't say where you are from, but hopefully there are groups in your area for face-to-face support, and if not you can always post here and someone will be here to answer.
Have been to a Look Good Feel Better workshop yet? They are wonderful for morale, and give all sorts of advice for scarf tying, wigs, etc. The Cancer Council even has a wig library where you can try different styles. They also give you makeup and creams, and teach how to apply them. It is a funny meeting and really enjoyable. Contact them online or through the Cancer Council or Hospital.
When you hair starts to fall out, have it cut very short or shave it off. It is the hardest part for us all, but not as bad as you think. We have all been there.
At the moment it is all overwhelming for you. It will settle down into a routine and things will get easier. Moo Goo is great, before, during and after radiation therapy, to keep your skin in top condition.
Let us know your chemo combination - someone here will have tips for coping. Do you have strong family support? Sending you a big hug - keep in touch - Michelle xxx