Dear Char, I have been waiting to read your results. Thankfully retained in one breast and no where else!! Woo Hoo!! On Saturday, I wept uncontrollably when Dan arrived for her wedding. The celebrant who new of Dan's battle, took me under her "wing" as she could see that I was really struggling when my baby and "survivor" Dan arrived. It was the day we all had been waiting for, for her to marry the man who has stood by her, for the 2 years that she was having treatment and unable to work.....so my tears were then overtaken by so much fun, dancing and laughter at the reception. Mike, Char will be fine... It's a wrotten process, with all the uncertaintity, the unknown, and all the ifs and buts!! Stay strong for each other, I know it's hard...but I did it by myself.....so friggen hard....you are allowed to "cry" Mike, men are allowed too, and there are times without a doubt that you do "struggle"...I still do.... Good luck, everything crossed, for today, to find out the next chapter in "your journey" Char.. My love to you all, Deb.