The words we use to describe treatment can have an impact--my oncologist likened chemotherapy for my results--similiar to yours--is like bombing of vietnam --bit haphazard and destructive and over the top; he felt targeted therapies--operation and tomaxafin were vital but radiation useful as extra insurance
i know the 'mop up' and 'do-able' are used on this site but i have a bias towards my own words! I was also fearful of the chemotherapy experience and what it could mean for my well being, functioning and financial security --
all the best