Mood swings
what a night. Reality bites when you wake up and reach for someone who is not there and was always there he's only passed 16mths ago no shoulder to cry on in the middle of the night. No more what i...
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Even with hubby and my sisters here to support me I had such sad days where I just felt so lonely and so sad, i cried a lot..and even 12 months on still have fears and tears at times...often just sneak up out if nowhere. Do let your children know you like to be needed, it's important to you. Do accept help when offered. Try to get out regularly with friends or family. ..just for a cuppa even. And know this...loss of somebody like a spouse takes years to recover from, you are still grieving and dealing with a difficult health challenge. It's okay to cry. But I get the feeling you are a strong person who will pick herself up and carry on...but give yourself permission to cry..it's not weakness, just a release of all that stress. Take care. Kath x