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cranky_granny
9 years agoMember
Mood swings
what a night. Reality bites when you wake up and reach for someone who is not there and was always there he's only passed 16mths ago no shoulder to cry on in the middle of the night. No more what i...
Deanne
9 years agoMember
You are right @"cranky granny" the side effects of treatment definitely include these mood swings. You are also right in telling yourself it will pass. After a while I could see the pattern of down and then the up times. It does get better again. Glad you went for a walk. This always helped me too.
I think many of us are used to being the strong ones, the one who is there for everyone else when needed. But this is just a short time in your life where you need to let others help you. I found it helped my family to cope if I let them help. So in a way you are still doing something to help them by letting them help you, if this makes sense?
I am over 3 years down the track now and life has settled back into a slightly different but very comfortable place again. That will happen for you too. One step, one day at a time and things get better again. Take care and come and 'talk' on here as much as you need to. It helps. Deanne xxx
I think many of us are used to being the strong ones, the one who is there for everyone else when needed. But this is just a short time in your life where you need to let others help you. I found it helped my family to cope if I let them help. So in a way you are still doing something to help them by letting them help you, if this makes sense?
I am over 3 years down the track now and life has settled back into a slightly different but very comfortable place again. That will happen for you too. One step, one day at a time and things get better again. Take care and come and 'talk' on here as much as you need to. It helps. Deanne xxx