Hi jennifer
Gosh finding a comfortable bra is a struggle - I found it hard to get a bra that felt pretty normal - I had a mastectomy in April followed by chemo and then radiation which I completed about a month ago !!
I am about a B size and I found everything having really broad straps etc difficult.
Then I discovered these bra top things at Fashion fair - dont know where you are or if you have this shop - I have seen a similiar thing at SES.
It is almost like a cotton stretchy small crop top but has removable cups so I can pop the soft prosthesis in the bra top itself where you are supposed to take the cups out when washing and it all sits very comfotrably and as the straps are thinner and it covers well at the front you can wear it under absolutely anything even string tops etc.
It honestly changed my options on what to wear has made it so easy and even better they only cost about $7. There is no wire in it and just sits really softly on the skin.
I am still a bit swollen under my arm on the mastectomy side and find these bras the best.
I hope that my description makes sense!!
All the best on your quest!!
Take care
Debs x