Sorry know some who have reconstruction including one who had a nipple tattoed on. Not sure of anyone with lymphoedema as well although some might.
I am certain that since you are working in the health system and are already receiving treatment for lymphoedema, you are in good hands.
If you can exercise and be extra fit before surgery, i understand that helps. Not sure of your time line.
I know of a friend who always had f cups, who lost serious weight through diet and exercise over a year or so. She had the incentive of daughters Bali wedding. Once she gained her target weight, she had a boob reduction and was slimmer on her daughters wedding than at her own 32 years earlier. A year later she has retained her slim figure and now is a size 12 with a c cup.
Not certain if thatnhelps,
Regards,
Carol
Let us know how the surgery etc. goes.