Shezz8
14 years agoMember
Lost confidence
Hey everyone, this is my first time blogging here. I've been single (widowed) for quite some years and had a single mastectomy two years ago. Because I was in the public system I could only get reco...
Hi
I am so sorry to hear of your story .
From what you have said though you told him about your cancer - so perhaps it wasnt to do with your body but more to do with what you have been through.
Cancer can be a very scary word to many and so maybe it was that that he was running from and not your body!!!!
Really this response says more about him than you !!!
Please don't lose heart or think that there wont be someone who will value you for who you are and not what you look like.
Sadly there are those who care more about the outward appearence - be it small boobs, big boobs or no boobs etc !!!!!!
There are also those who have had various experiences with cancer or a fear of it and it may just seem too much to cope with .
But that is not someone you want to share this road with.
Hang in there - dont give up - and there are men out there who are genuinely caring and wont care about the outside !!! Thhere are many ladies here who talk about having them in their lives.
Keep going - you are worth it.
Take care
Debsxx