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Hi ladies, I too had pelvic floor physio before I had a pelvic floor surgery. I was quite worried at the time but I found it not too bad although it wasnt something I shared with others. Certainly not something to share around the dinner table :) it is quite invasive but I figured after having three children there was worse things that could happen. I too have suffered with vaginal dryness with the menopause not caused by treatments but by just being a woman. I use ky stuff which is not the most romantic but it helps, my partner struggles with this a bit as he thinks it's his fault even though I reasure him it's not. Loss of confidence in my appearance after my masectomy has taken its toll and I struggle with loss of desire as well. I try to take one day at a time and hope that this will ease gradually as time goes by. Thank you lovely ladies for sharing your stories it helps to know your not alone. Louise x