You are amazing. I love the way you think!!!!! I am constantly intrigued to hear people say that they disowned their child when they "came out" How can you stop loving someone??? I assume that your son is the most loving, caring person. I have known many homosexual people and it doesn't make any difference to me. If they are nice people - they are nice people. I don't care about their sexual preferences. (would they care about mine???) Now about your chest pains. I have a lot of pain from "blocked lymph drainage" Because it costs a lot I try to limit my consultations to once a month - until - the pains gets too bad. This just happened before Xmas and I was in agony. Maybe doing too much prior to Xmas,hurrying around etc caused it - who knows. I made an appointment and on the way felt like I was having a heart attack. Stresss and over doing it really has an impact. After the intense lymph drainage massage which included deep scar massage I felt like a different person. I will now be booking in every two weeks at the least. Take good care of your body Kathy. XLeonie