Oh Fran how terrible, to have your husband's op cancelled twice is just so unfair, especially when the man is so sick. Understandably he is depressed and is it any wonder. All you can do is be strong for him and be there when he needs you, anxiety/depression is such an awful debilitating illness. Don't forget to take care of yourself, so you can in turn look after your hubby. You have a long road of recovery ahead for both of you. I am glad you are getting support from the social worker and your family, as you can't go it alone all the time. My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this very difficult time and I wish you well.
Don't feel alone in your motel room, just jump on here, there will always be someone to talk to.
Dale