Bibi39
10 years agoMember
Ivf bad result
We were hoping to have another brother or sister for my 10 month and fell pregnant 3 months ago.i was told I couldn't keep baby as the beast cancer I'd been diagnosed with 1 week later was a Grade 3....
Hello:) How sad you must feel at the moment. I can't say I know exactly how you feel,but I can say that I have 3 children,my eldest is 35. She is due her first baby in 10 weeks,and she has been to hell and back.Multiple IVF cycles with no luck.Then she fell pregnant and gave birth to a little girl.Sadly she died shortly after birth.That was 3 and a half years ago. She had given up,and then suddenly the impossible happened.She fell pregnant!!! My daughter and her husband feel so very lucky to be able to have this one child.There won't be any more for several reasons .You are grieving at the moment,but when you get past your grief,past your chemo,and start to see a light at the end of the tunnel(and you WILL ) I feel sure that you will feel so fortunate to have your precious little one,AND your own life:)Many times through life,we don't always get to choose the exact path that we would like,but there are always other just as good options!! It just doesn't seem like it at the time! You WILL feel ok again,and life will be good.I am 60 years of age,and I foster children.There are many ways to create a family in this world.Please stay in touch,and put what energy you have into your gorgeous looking 10 month old.Cheers Robyn xox