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Arleene's avatar
Arleene
Member
11 years ago

I've got my pathology results finally

Hi Ladies,

I got my results on Thursday and there were a few surprises but that's okay, I had 1 Lymph node removed which was Cancerous it says on the report that the Lymph Node was largely replaced by a Metastatic Carcinoma, I actually had 2 Invasive Ductal Carcinomas one 22mm and the other 7mm approximatly 30mm in total but also and also a dcis Tumour of 35mm which wasn't far off becoming Invasive, the tumours also came back Oestrogen and Progesterone Positive but the good news is HER2 NEGATIVE and my bc is not Hereditary but my daughter has to have checks u/s and mammograms from about 35. I have to have Chemo and Radiotherapy not sure about Hormone Therapy yet but my surgeon doesn't think I need any more Surgery. He's meeting with the management team on Thursday afternoon and we have to go and see him Friday morning and then I have to wait for the Oncologist and Radiologist to call me. I'm so relieved and so is my husband and my friends are too, it was a little more than I expected but at least I can move onto the next step now, my poor little dog isn't so lucky he is deteriating before my eyes my husband is in denial we are in the habit of looking into alternate therapies as we don't believe in euthenasia and he's not suffering but he's my baby my little chihaua warrior my protector I love my Chicko at least I know I can be cured or become Cancer Free. My mother in law has been great with looking after my daughter but today I can't go shopping and she flat out refused to buy my food I mean OMG your daughter in law has bc it's made me so mad but in the end it's not an issue I suppose.

Lots of Cyber Hugs and big smiles

Anitaxx 

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  • Arleene's avatar
    Arleene
    Member
    11 years ago

    Hi Rowdy,

    I got my first call from the Cancer Center in Darwin for the first time asking for my Mammogram CD for their file so my Husband is taking that to them tomorrow, they are having the big team meeting on Thursday and my Surgeon didn't have the cd as we gave him the results from the ultrasound and mammogram so they need the cd for my file they said before Thursdays meeting so I suppose it's all happening as they decide on my Treatment plan on Thursday and I have to go back and see my surgeon on Friday, I've allready cut my hair as I've been told I have to have Chemo and my bc nurse suggested it as I had quite long hair and apparently losing your hair is quite traumatic, I wanted it cut short anyway. I feel like I'm in Limbo at the moment, the journey is going to be a long one which I'm prepared for and being on here with everyones support will make the journey a little easier. Our little dog isn't too good today which is a bit worrying but that's the awful thing about Cancer and I'm not doing too good today either I'm so tired I guess there's too much going through my head or maybe I over did things a bit today as I still don't know my limits as my arm is still a little sore it comes and goes.

    Sending you Cyber Hugs

    Anitaxx

  • Anonymous's avatar
    Anonymous
    11 years ago

    Hi Anita, you now know what you have to deal with, and once your treatment plan is in place you'll be able to forge ahead in a more positive manner. Sending you a cuddle for you, your family and your little dog xxxx

  • adean's avatar
    adean
    Member
    11 years ago

    Hi di is right the my journey book and diary are invaluable especially the diary. I carried it to every appointment. I also had a blackboard in the kitchen and I wrote my mood on it everyday like tired, sad , happy etc the family would write rude things on it . It became a distraction of humor amongst the hard times. Xxx adean

  • deh's avatar
    deh
    Member
    11 years ago

    Hi Anita

    Good to hear your news. A big relief to have your results and know what your choices are.

    Glad you now have a clearer, more positive focus on what's ahead for you. Remember - take one step at a time = less worries and better recovery. 

    Be kind to yourself along the way, too. Positive self talk can make a big difference to the way we feel.

    Sounds like your husband, your daughter and friends are wonderful support for you. So let them know what help you need, especially during your treatment.

    Maybe take another look at your My Journey Kit, too. I found there were parts of it that made more sense to me, once I had my treatment plan worked out (especially the resources lists, stories and practical tips). The diary helped me with recording appointments, costs etc, as well as keeping a journal to reflect on my progress - to celebrate my milestones! 

    Hope little Chiko keeps giving you lots of joy. Every day's a blessing.

    Have a happy weekend.

    Di

     

     

  • kazza4450's avatar
    kazza4450
    Member
    11 years ago

    Hi Anita

    Yah to finally having a plan to move forward with. Sorry to hear your results were more than expected but good on you for facing the challenge ahead with such a positive spirit.

    Sorry to hear about your little dog. Will keep praying for him also that he is more comfortable.

    And I know what you mean about asking for help and responses from others at times. With 5 kids some are very very helpful, the others are like...What?? why do I have to do that, lol.

    And they are all young adults but still growing into how to help others I think, lol.

    Stay strong. Were beside you every step of the way :)

     

  • rowdy's avatar
    rowdy
    Member
    11 years ago

    Hi Anita it is good you have results and you can start planning. Buy yourself a diary to keep track of appointments.

    Sorry about your dog, it is really hard when they are so much a part of your family.Take care of yourself and your family, you have a long trip ahead of you, take it one day at a time in the beginning it is hard to see the end but you will get there. Sending you and yours a hugxx