I loved this post Leonie! I try to think the same as you and enjoy life. Unfortunately, this has resulted in me spoiling myself a little too much, but hey, why not? My husband works way too much also, and I was telling him just tonight that he should indulge more in his favourite hobbies. He has never let our lives revolve around my cancers and it's the best approach he could have taken. He feels breast cancer is just one small aspect of our lives, certainly not the main storyline! He encourages me to look outward rather than focus on myself, and his positive outlook has rubbed off on me and our daughters tremendously. Love Jane xx