Hi Merylee I am from China. I read your blogs and know you are on Chinese herbal medicine now. In China it is common to use both herbal medicine and western treatments for cancer and it's quite effective. My family even suggested me to go back to have my treatment. Hopefully I can find someone with the Chinese herbal knowledge here.
I read your story too and think you are so strong and positive. Good luck with the fertility and treatment. You are on my thought. You are right that everything happens for a reason and really want to know it.
Good luck to all of us here!