Hi @Hope2013
My cancer came back too. I'm a lot older than you but I know how frightening, and frustrating, it can be to find out you are not free of the disease. My heart goes out to you.
Regarding marriage and tits, I've got to agree with the other ladies--keep looking for someone who is more interested in what is going on between your ears than under your shirt. I know that may sound a bit trite, but I can tell you from personal experience it is possible to not only start a relationship but to grow it into a fabulous rounded experience even when your chest looks like someone took a stack blender to it. Which mine does. I don't like it, but if that's the biggest problem I have, I can live with it and my partner has never batted an eyelid.
Good luck, Marg XXX