My heart goes out to you. I've been in situations where I have been dealing in person with someone in crisis when another has called and they became angry when I asked if I could call back. I guess as the caller we don't always know the full story. My GP was terrified to tell me the results. ..but I had seen them already.... she was so relieved to not have to tell me but just get on with the practical stuff. I found people supportive initially but now as chemo has really brought me low, they really don't want to know. Fortunately my sister and husband are there for me and at least get it. I spoke with a counselor yesterday supposedly a cancer counselor. ..who looked at a loss as to what to do. So...I'll just muddle through and use this site and my close few to share my fears and daily woes with. Take care. Kath x