i was diagnosed about 6 weeks ago. At first the surgeon said I would have to have a mastectomy and then chemo. She then gave me the option of having chemo first to reduce the tumour and then have a lumpectomy and lymph node dissection. It has spread to one lymph node, stage 2. I have always vowed I would never have chemo so I just can't make a decision. My instinct tells me to have the surgery first and then take it from there. Any thoughts anyone?
Hi Pat, any bc decision you have to make is awful either way.Once you've done all your research and questioning then go with what feels right for you at this point in time.Lots of factors to consider like size of tumour and your age etc.We all have our own story and reasons for our decisions.I had a lumpectomy, full node clearance and radiation in 2003 at the age of 47yrs. My lump was 2cm and no cancer in my nodes so I didn't have chemo.7yrs later cancer came back in the same spot so had to have a mastectomy and chemo then Tamoxifen.That was 5yrs ago and I'm ok now.Recoverywise and Painwise,both ops are similar but psychologically,not having a breast is more confronting and harder to get used to. I am speaking personally but also from living with both surgeries.I am sick of being lopsided and trying to find higher necklines but then I remind myself that I'm alive and dodged a bullet twice! Keep asking questions until you are comfortable with your decision then don't have regrets.Tonya xx
Hi Pat. It's a decision only you can make, with the advice of the professionals around you. I'm halfway through chemo, and will be having a lumpectomy and axillary clearance late October, all going well. Is there a breast care nurse locally you can talk to? They can help with a lot of those questions you will have, & you can self refer to them. From what you have said, it sounds like they're recommending chemo one way or another, but do think about the advantages of having less invasive surgery, with minimal in survival rates.
Take care, Lyn
Pat, It is hard for us all to become opinionated on a topic we previously new nothing about......but we have to research what is the best option given to us by health professionals.
I know Chemo isn't much fun. But I can say it's saved my life. I'm still here 8 years on & having had lymph node involvement as well. There is a big difference from having a lump removed to having a total mastectomy body image wise. I'm told they are having great success with shrinking tumors with chemo these days. But as I said research the option that suits you, BCNA have lots of information.
Good luck Deb
