hi chrissy,
We certainly would like your mum to join us, as we are trying to support not only bc sufferers, but their families and friends as well. As we all know, we are the ones going through the journey, and sometimes that made slightly more difficult when we have to worry about our close ones as well, so by building a network on here, we cann all help each other. re the Arimidex, there are different hormone medications and i am sure your doctors will discuss your options if you need them. The telling people can be a bit of a strain, and the pamphlet in the My Journey kit, is one you can give to friends or leave in the tea room at work, it also helps them knwo how to cope and react. keep on Typing Chrissy, we are all here for you X