I havent posted since before my surgery

It’s a hard one to decide and I fully sympathise with your views about enough surgery, at least for the time being. If you have a mastectomy, you can discuss the options beforehand including being clear what can and can’t be done at a later date. I confess I didn’t fancy reconstruction at all, for a number of reasons, and have never regretted taking the mono-boobed path, but many find reconstruction both essential and emotionally restorative. Best wishes what ever you decide.