Hi Trena, I have added you to the phyllodes tumor group. You can read through lots of blogs there and contact the various members through this group. I have also got a blog on the site that has my complete experience on there which includes mastectomy and reconstruction with an implant, plus a reduction of the other breast. The blog is titled "phyllodes tumor - is there anyone else out there?". This blog also has the stories of some of the other ladies in the group too. Please ask questions on my blog or within the group, as we are happy to help you as much as we can. Also please post your story if and when you feel ready. Best wishes. Katie.