I think it's a case of congratulations and comiserations at the same time. That's why this site is so good cos we understand those mixed feelings and 12 mths of treatment is a big chunk out of your life to not be feeling well. Friends can say stupid things,probably with the best intentions.We can either forgive them (cos they don't really understand)or withdraw from them for awhile.You sure have some fruit loops offering you weird advice! Where can I get me some of that miracle cream-might be able to grow a boob back! So just take one bit at a time-it can be so overwhelming.Good luck for next Friday-keep busy until then.
Tonya xx