so here I sit after having my two ops (first lumpectomy and five nodes) then (all nodes as cancer spread) my chemo starts Tuesday and I have told the family, husband, daughter 20, her fiance 22, and y...
Well had the dinner table family chat asking for bits of help as bit hard atm - not all that responsive but will see - daughter suggested tough love with her 17 year old brothers and may come to that.Also learnt I have to double emphasise with her - forgot salad for tea asked for a lift to shop -she said now ? My interpretation was NOT now but apparently was do you want to go now ? Guess am so used to no help as they are always busy doing something else.