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Husband and chores
so here I sit after having my two ops (first lumpectomy and five nodes) then (all nodes as cancer spread) my chemo starts Tuesday and I have told the family, husband, daughter 20, her fiance 22, and y...
Bad luck, hubby, the maid is broken.
If you were his car, tractor, bike etc he'd understand that in order for you to work properly, he'd have to spend time and money on you. If he had to send machinery off to the dealership for a rebuild, he'd do it. Deeply inconvenient as that may be for him.
Take to your bed. Don't participate. If these people are worth you, they will pitch in. Kym, this is all about you at the moment. Things will get worse before they get better, do not set yourself up to fail by allowing unrealistic time frames or expectations becoming something you feel you need to live up to. Marg xxx
If you were his car, tractor, bike etc he'd understand that in order for you to work properly, he'd have to spend time and money on you. If he had to send machinery off to the dealership for a rebuild, he'd do it. Deeply inconvenient as that may be for him.
Take to your bed. Don't participate. If these people are worth you, they will pitch in. Kym, this is all about you at the moment. Things will get worse before they get better, do not set yourself up to fail by allowing unrealistic time frames or expectations becoming something you feel you need to live up to. Marg xxx