Hi Lynne,
I had only full mastectomy plus sentinel node (plus an empty chunk) not full node clearance like you. The mastectomy was not really a problem, no real pain, just surprised me when it filled up with up to 600ml of fluid called a seroma, which is a kind of blister, sterile and just what tissue does whie the layers are in the process of binding together.It had to be drained, Don't be surprised or upset if you get one, it is not a bad sign, just needs to be drained every few days by the surgeon. Mine was bigger than many and took longer to heal than many. I also got a bad strep infection on the surgical drain site, basically because I was foolish enough not to contact Peter himself straight away when it got pinkish, but to ask a nurse for advice, and she turned out to be very junior and ignorant, and wrongly told me to wait the 3 days till my appointment with Peter. So ask if you can have his direct number for any emergency.
I have heard it is the lymph node area not the mastectomy that tends to hurt and get most of the cording and lymphodema, so do take the painkillers they suggest, and if you start to get any cording or swelling ask about the physio at the Mount who is an expert with lymphodema . Cording is where you get tight cords in the tissue like twine, and they feel a bit crampy. I had no idea what it was, or what to do about it.
Chris Nixon on this board mentioned this wonderful physio.
The Mount is just going through a big staff change with the opening of Fiona Stanley Hospital quite a few nurses are going there. I am told the brand new director of nursing at The Mount is lovely but follows one who set quite a few people looking for new jobs. Since the new lady is really good, many of them may change their mind and not leave after all or come back. But it might help to be aware of this kerfuffle, and to ask who are the senior long-term staff members when you need info or advice.
Also, if you find yourself with a room you don't like, ask to be changed. I had one that was like a little dungeon, because the building works had it all enclosed and was then moved to a lovely room.
Remember Cathy the breast care nurse can help with all sorts of things. She will give you her contact card. Use it.
If you want Arlene for your oncologist, tell Peter when you see him next that this is what you would like, so he can refer you on to her.
Oh, and at present, parking in the grounds appears to be on credit card, but you put your ticket in and the boom goes up and there is no charge. On the street, the parking nazis are merciless, but in the hospital grounds at present it is free, but you need to get in early.