Kez51
13 years agoMember
How do I do this.
Not sure how to handle this. Having to lose both my breasts seems so cruel after everything else I have gone through in the past few years. Can't get my head around more surgery and losing more of .....
Hi Kez
I agree - it is unfair. Why do we have to keep getting dished out all this crap?? I wish I had the answers but unfortunately I don't and nor do any of the pink ladies. All we can do is say we are so sorry you now find yourself on another crappy journey. It's just not fair sometimes. We are here for you and will help you get through. I don't know how I would cope if I was unable to visit this site and my pink sisters every day. They give me so much strength and understanding cause I know they are going through or have been through the same if not a lot worse. We are lucky we have this site to vent, ask, advise and to just get our thoughts and feeliings out there. I know personally that once I have got my fears out and shared with other people they seem lessened in some way. I hope we can do that for you.
My advice to you from my own dealings with this BC is as you say you have to take it sometimes an hour at a time and maybe a day at a time when you are up for it. I found keeping myself busy just doing anything, the things I love to do especially. Trying to not let yourself dwell on this shitty time and looking after yourself the whole way through.
I am so sorry you are having a tough old time but remember we are here for you and we know where you are coming from and what you will be going through.
Mich xo.