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Hazel_M
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12 years ago

How bad must I look?

Hi Ladies, funny story, well that's how I choose to look at it. At my hospital appointment, I run into a lady who I met on diagnosis day, thought I would ask how she is travelling. My partner went and sat down a few chairs away from us. Lovely lady comments how nice it is that my son comes to every visit with me. I reply 'pardon?'. She repeats it and I reply 'my son? no, that's my partner'. She responds with 'oh, good for u, a toy boy'. At this point a complete stranger responds with  'what a clanger'. By this time I'm thinking 'how bad do i look'. I informed her my partner is 4 years older than me. Had to laugh, she was so embarrassed. Now of course, when told, my partner leans forward a gives her a nice little wave:) He is still laughing, what a hoot. He does have long hair and a beard, but really! I had made such an effort with my appearance, too:)

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  • Yeah the little boy's mother was so embarrassed but I just laughed and said it was okay. At least kids are so honest :)
  • Oh Tonya,

    Like Janey's reply, that made me laugh...cos I could imagine my boy saying something like that!

    Thank goodness we can still laugh & have funny memories of this horribleness!

    Jenny xxx

  • Oh Janey, sorry...but that me laugh so much!!!

    I can imagine my boy saying something like that! Xx

  • Hazel, your partner is going to hang on to this story forever you realize!!

    I hope all is going well with you both......Jenny xx

  • So funny - we just have to keep on laughing.   I always thought I looked pretty good for my age until my young hairdressers commented on how young my husband was. (he is 6 weeks older than me)  They thought how "hot" he was.  Bugger!!!!  Still laughing though XLeonie

  • So funny - we just have to keep on laughing.   I always thought I looked pretty good for my age until my young hairdressers commented on how young my husband was. (he is 6 weeks older than me)  They thought how "hot" he was.  Bugger!!!!  Still laughing though XLeonie

  • I think we've all been in your shoes one way or another. When I had my surgery I was in with three other women. You may have heard me tell this story before. I was still bald but didn't bother with head coverings in hospital. The little grandson visiting one of the ladies said to his mother "mummy, what's the man doing in here?" Gotta laugh don't you. Janey xxx