Hi Heather - it does wound like we are going through very similar experiences at the moment. I'm in Melbourne so not far away - the weirdness is a little surreal for me at the moment. I feel like I want to find the control button but it's nowhere to be found. I got my pathology results yesterday - you must be going cray waiting for yours - would be happy to compare notes. i was so pleased that my surgeon took so much time to explain the results in detail and go through the various treatment options and prognoses and answer pretty much every silly question we had written down (and those we didn't). How are you feeling post surgery? I am still quite uncomfortable. I had my drain out yesterday and most of the dressings taken off - just left with steristrips now. I have a tissue expander in - my 6 year old is fascinated with what she sees now - just staring and asking when they are going to pump it back up!
It's nice to "meet" you and I look forward to having a place to vent!