Hi and what moisturiser do you use?

Hi Purplehazlenut. So sorry to hear about this. Julie and Paula have given you all the right information. When I need to, I use Yes water based vaginal moisturiser every night for a few days, particularly before the weekend (which is the only time we attempt to have sex now). Other times, I use it every 2 - 3 nights. The oil-based lubricant gets slathered on my partner. Sex still hurts, and I'm now wondering if it's muscle tension because of the previous pain. Someone in the LLL group actually found a physio that helped with that stuff. She's in NSW. There's one I know in Melbourne, and I may go to see her. Just too much else on my plate right now. Yes isn't cheap, as we all know, but it's a mile in front of Replens or Sylk. Once you get the vaginal situation settled, can you get someone to mind the kids for a night, and nick off to a hotel with your husband? A romantic night might be good for both of you! Best of luck, Pam.