help to make a decision

Hi Jane

Sorry you're feeling rushed into making a decision. Sounds like it's a very stressful time for you.

I found information from My Journey Kit, BCNA website and Cancer Council Helpline/ booklets very helpful. Fact sheets, diagrams, some photos and FAQ's were especially useful. It also helped me to write down any specific questions to ask my surgeon at appointment times.

Once I had a basic understanding of my diagnosis, I felt more confident investigating and discussing my treatment options with my medical team ( including my breast care nurse who had lots of practical experience and tips to share). I kept asking questions until answers made sense to me and I felt some control in my decision making.

My first surgery (wide excision - no clear margins) was followed by a major decision/second surgery ( mascetomy/ immediate reconstruction with expander) about 2 weeks later. About 7 months later, I had my final surgery (with expander exchanged for permanent implant).

I found recovery time (physically and emotionally) at each stage quite challenging as I'm normally very busy and active. However I learnt to adjust my routines and enjoy new activities.

I am now fully recovered with no regrets. I feel stronger, healthier and happier for making my own decisions.

Keep looking for the information and support you need, to make decisions that are best for you.

Keep in touch, too.

Di