Hi ladies
Firstly let me welcome you to the network and say I hope you're coping ok.
I do hope Liv that you can connect with Dr Mainwaring and hopefully you'll get some answers to your very important questions. Thanks to Serenity11 for the great advice...I'm a believer in serendipity/fate and if this isn't the doctor for you, then I don't know who would be...considering you were emailing to him when Serenity's post arrived!
I hope you don't mind but I also just wanted to assist you with help with the Network. Like you I found it a little hard to get around until I came across the help page.
I have posted the link for you - so just copy/paste that into your browser (make sure you're still logged into the network) and have a good read of it. It provides answers and questions and a bit of a "how to" for the network so hopefully you'll find it easier in the future.
Here is the Link : http://www.bcna.org.au/node/476
Do keep in touch and good luck.
Luv Helen