I faced something a bit similar when my then oncologist asked me to choose between Tamoxifen and an AI. At our next meeting I said I couldn't possibly and wasn't that what I was paying her the big money for? It was said light heartedly but my eyes were serious. I made her choose.
I realise some patients like to conduct their own research and take an active part in their treatment decisions. However frankly I think asking a 'civilian' to choose their chemo regime is pushing that a bit far. Chemotherapy is a serious treatment and cynical me thinks putting the choice in your hands gives your oncologist an 'out' should there be problems down the line.
If you have the energy I would seek a second opinion. If for no other reason than to be comfortable in your own mind that you've made the right decision. I agree, it shouldn't be in your hands. K xox
