Others have suggested a second opinion and think this is a great idea. If you get the same advice this will help put your mind to rest. Also well worth seeing your oncologist again to talk it through now you have thought about it some more. Chemotherapy is really unpleasant and I sometimes wonder whether it was really necessary in my case but I may never really know. I guess if I get cancer somewhere else I will know chemo was necessary, but didn't work. It sounds like your oncologist has good reasons for not giving you chemo. No point in having it if it kills you or damages your Heath badly. Good luck.
