Hi Yasmin,
I had invasive ductal 2cm tumour in July 2011 ( grade 2.) I couldn't believe i had got cancer and went through some pretty dark days worrying just like everyone else on this site. I was absolutely terrified that the Oncologists were going to tell me i needed to have chemo as part of my treatment plan, and I, like you were so scared of the side effects of loosing my hair and becoming really sick............Good news was i had a lumpectomy in August with No Chemo Yay! as margins were clear. I then had radiation treatment for 5 weeks that ended in December. Due to the tumor being hormone v+ . i am taking tamoxifen for 5yrs and Zoladex injections for 2 years. I was so releaved that i didn't need chemo but everyones treatment plan is different and if you dont feel comfortable with what your treatment plan is then please ask for a second opinion.
Yasmin it is normal for you to feel scared about breast cancer and having chemo as it is a really nasty drug. However you will get through it, It may not be easy but you will strive through it and kill off this disease forever. Us women are stronger than we think .
All the best with everything and I hope everything goes well for you on your journey Cheers Jo xx