I've just gotten my referral for genetic counselling and feeling a bit miffed (my husband's annoyed too about the gap). Although I've yet to discuss it with the counsellor, as I understand from what ...
I'm just having a rant as I've yet to see the counsellor but it seems pretty clear what the guidelines are (unless I can invent some Jewish ancestry). There's no way I can afford the test costs and while I'd love to be proven wrong and a nervous Nellie, it would not at all surprise me to find there's a genetic link. But I know there's some on this site who have much more compelling evidence of possible links and it hasn't shown up.