@Tarnya74 It's funny, initially I was set on a lumpectomy, there was no way I was having the bi-lateral mastectomy both doctors had recommended. Then….after a breast MRI they spotted another lump in my other breast and wanted to do a biopsy….. I panicked and thats when I made the decision. I thought to myself, every time I feel a lump or just in general, I will be constantly worried that it's back. I knew I couldn't live my life like that. I went straight back to the dr and said I would go with what was recommended. She was shocked at my sudden turn around. Even after Iwoke up in recovery, I knew I had done the right thing. Now that I have the test results back, I think in a funny way my body made me make the right decision. Just remember that the most important thing above anything else is your health. Boobs are boobs, yes I loved mine and so did my partner. But I feel fine, I have the expanders in and my partner kisses them often and says how much he loves me and how proud he is that I choose my health :)