Thanks for the replies girls, I am going to do exactly that and get a second opinion with a new doctor. See if i can push for a second ultrasound and they can compare how it is now to how it was in September. When my sister was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer she had just turned 40 and died at age 41 scary. My doctor thinks i am reading too much into it and that i am just panicking because of what happened to my sister and she may have a point but the more i read of other peoples stories the more i realise that breast lumps and cancer is not an easy one to diagnoise either. A second opinion wont do any harm at all.
thanks girls