My experience is the same as Summer.I go in to the room,sit down and have a chat,and he always asks if I have any concerns.Then I have my examination,then another chat.It is quick,but thorough!!Stand up for yourself Chris,because as we all know,the day of our checkup,is SO important to how we feel and manage things,as we move forward even more.If I was you,next time I would take a list of questions,and tell the nurse that you want to SPEAK to the doctor before your examination.I am sure that there are many other ladies with the same experience as you.Some doctors need to do a course in common courtesy!!!!!!!! Cheers xoRobyn